[寶寶] 關於搶抱的心情調適
公婆年紀很大才有了孫子
我兒是他們的第二個孫
婆婆對孫子滿瘋狂的,生之前嗆說沒辦法顧小孩
生了之後
只要我們回婆家,才ㄧ進門,她就會丟下所有的事情
手刀衝來把小孩抱走
平常說自己的腰跟手退化了,但抱我那8.8公斤的胖兒子
還可以抱上2小時不放
有人幫顧跟疼我兒子,我當然開心
可是~昨晚我兒子想睡了
看到我,就是ㄧ副想給我抱,手朝我張開的樣子
婆婆就說:妳看!他會找媽媽了!
(當然!我是他媽啊!)然後又把兒子抱著走開
兒子就會用一種:媽媽為什麼不抱我?的無辜表情看我
然後唉了幾聲
(雖然這可能是媽媽的自行腦補)
然後婆婆也很愛抱著哄睡寶寶(還要哼歌)
上禮拜回家後,兒子前幾天不這樣就不睡
好不容易調整回可以自己吸一下奶嘴就入睡
偏偏回婆家,只要兒子哭,婆婆的孫子雷達就馬上啟動
都會搶走說要抱給兒子睡~ㄧ抱就不回頭了@@
ㄧ個禮拜才兩三天,常常我會覺得奶奶疼孫子,我應該開心
但有時候就會覺得:搞什麼?我才是他媽媽!
請問~該如何去調適呢?
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