[寶寶] 如何找到照顧寶寶的樂趣已回收
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我是新手媽媽,寶寶目前1m5d,因為他只吸一邊的乳房,又都要吸很久,
所以放棄親餵,採全瓶餵,當時產後第2、3週時因為無法親餵,
產後憂鬱大爆發,因為原本想採全親餵的,但後來釋懷了,
擠奶餵奶洗奶瓶的循環也適應了,且餵奶就不一定要我親自餵,我覺得也不錯,
但是我的寶寶很愛哭,清醒的時候很少是冷靜的,喝完奶也哭,
換完尿布也哭,左哄右抱也哭,放電動搖床也哭,塞奶嘴也哭,
白天小睡時間都很短,常半小時就醒,醒來就哭,
晚上睡覺也要哄很久才睡,大約每3-4小時就是換尿布、喝奶、拍嗝、哭、哄睡
的循環,每天都過一樣的日子,媽媽好累,也無法出門太久,
先生是消防員,常一連好幾天不在家,所以拜託我媽媽過來一起住幫我忙,
但是我好像也把媽媽拖下水,讓她被外孫綁住,破壞她原本自由自在的退休生活,
昨天寶寶在哭,我默默紅了眼眶,我不知道照顧他的樂趣在哪?
沒有樂趣要怎麼支持我繼續過這樣的日子,和他說話逗他也沒有任何回應,
自己就像傻瓜一樣一直對他自言自語,雖然很討厭他哭卻還是要裝可愛,
問他怎麼了?媽媽秀秀....我想問大家也都是這樣子的嗎?這樣是正常的嗎?
很多人說愈大會愈改善這情形,我要等到什麼時候呢?
這一個月又五天的日子每天都度日如年,每天都像陀螺一直轉不停,
想好好做件事,卻常常被寶寶的哭聲打斷,
要怎麼找到照顧寶寶的樂趣呢?
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