[寶寶] 育嬰假結束後寶寶該給誰照顧?已回收
我的寶寶目前5個月 預計1/5育嬰假結束 開始上班
屆時寶寶約8個月大 但目前非常苦惱寶寶該給誰帶
本身狀況:
目前住彰化娘家 我在苗栗上班 明年規畫老公請假 一起在苗栗住
老公在台北工作兼念博士班(目前剛念博一) 每周回彰化看我們
原本想等我育嬰假結束接著換老公請育嬰假 但他公司人資非常官僚不給請
說一定要等2/1開始才讓他休完特休再請育嬰 沒得商量
所以出現了一個月空窗其無人照顧
娘家狀況:
哥哥有個兒子約8個月 媽媽非常重男輕女 超疼他兒子 把我女兒當鄰居小孩
因為大嫂非常懶 不做家事完全沒做副食品給小孩過
所以我媽常會想要A我做的副食品給她孫子吃 但被我拒絕 從此母女關係交惡
因此我不考慮給我媽帶
婆家狀況:
公公在台中上班 婆婆跟老公的哥哥住高雄
大伯今年得血癌 所以婆婆在家照顧他 每天陪他回醫院打化療藥
我們有問過這個月空窗期可以請婆婆來幫忙照顧小孩嗎
但被婆婆拒絕 他說不想離開大伯
但我覺得心裡很X的是 大伯都生病了還是不改變造成生病的生活作息
每天半夜都不睡 FB上滿滿的都分享動漫美少女圖片 白天去醫院打化療藥順便補眠
我覺得自己很自私很想要婆婆來幫忙 但看大伯這樣又敢怒不敢言 哀
考慮狀況:
1.在苗栗請保母 但有保母願意接受只接一個月的嗎?
還有老公有課期間 還得將小孩臨托
2.在苗栗找托嬰中心 優點是比較便宜 缺點是怕排不到也怕感冒
托嬰中心有接受只拖一個月以及日後每週幾天的臨托嗎?
3.老公希望把小孩放高雄給婆婆顧 我們夫妻每週通勤回高雄看小孩
但我工作隔週休 搭火車回高雄陪小孩沒幾小時又得回去上班
反而是我自己最最捨不得小孩
若是選3沒辦法每天看小孩 反而是我會哭死
想請問大家 該怎麼做才好呢 謝謝大家~~
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