[寶寶] 令人崩潰的厭奶已回收
女寶目前3m16d
當初奮鬥了三年才懷上寶寶,誰知道孕吐了四個月...抱著馬桶邊吐邊哭
人家都說:媽媽吐代表寶寶越健康 我只好用這句話來安慰自己撐過了嘔吐期
寶寶生下來後...誰知怎麼都不願意吸我的乳頭,甚至寧可餓三天也不願意吸直到變成黃疸
於是我就發狂似的狂擠母乳瓶餵給她喝,不到一個月每天就可以擠出一公升的母乳
她的胃口也很大,每次奶量總是超標,讓護士們嘖嘖稱奇
但也就是因為沒有天然的通乳器(寶寶的嘴)...塞奶和乳腺炎紛紛排隊找上了我
連照顧寶寶都有問題的媽媽...只好退奶...
寶寶慢慢的轉換成喝配方奶後,一個多月的她一天睡不到六小時,
清醒的時間有九成都是在哭鬧,看醫生後被診斷應該是腸絞痛...
於是換了雀巢能恩水解...狀況沒改善,而且大概不好喝,她愛喝不喝的
只好換成亞培親護...狀況感覺比較穩定...但兩個月開始...她開始了自己的厭奶生涯...
任何能想到的拒奶動作她都表現出來了...
舌頭頂,手推開,扯開手帕,全身抽蓄哭,頭轉開,嘴巴緊閉睡覺...等等等
而我也練就一身對付厭奶的技能...喝前按摩肚子,拍嗝,分段餵,很無聊不出聲的餵,
唱歌給她聽,喝給她看(寶寶會模仿),半睡半醒間餵...
但每天至少有一餐是剩100cc...所以餵奶變成我最痛苦的工作 她喝得痛苦 我餵得更痛苦
也不用戒奶睡...因為她根本就不餓...所以不會餓醒...我多期盼再次看她哭餓的樣子...
三個月開始...厭奶更嚴重了...甚至餐餐喝了就溢奶...甚至吐光光...
所以很自然而然的變成一天餵四餐...因為她都不餓所以依舊厭奶...
5.7kg的她每天總奶量一直維持600cc,但她沒有一天是全部喝完的,
崩潰的我只能槌床槌沙發怒吼...有次被我老公看到,他嚇到了...所以只要他在家
到了喝奶時間他會自告奮勇的餵寶寶,失敗了再請我接力餵
我能想到自我安慰的藉口有:
1.寶寶有長大就好
2.寶寶本來就有大小胃
3.反正強餵的奶會被她吐光,所以有喝就好
4.越早厭奶的寶寶越聰明
5.再撐半個月就可以加副食品了
6.對不起我想不到了...因為上面那些理由無法讓意志薄弱的我看開...而陷入極度的憂鬱
不喝奶的清醒時間她會自己安靜的玩...也很愛笑...但只要到了餵奶時間就是人間煉獄
不知道有沒有媽媽跟我一樣...碰到"很聰明"但不貼心的寶寶...
我是不是該把寶寶送去給專業的保母來帶...當初為了寶寶請了一年的育嬰假
但一想到一天要經歷四次的人間煉獄就...我該如何撐下去呢?
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