[寶寶] 寶寶在南部公婆家 想接回來已回收
女兒明天就滿月了 但就在這月產假結束前一周我把她帶到公婆那住一周先適應
其實生產之前老公有問過我意見要給誰帶
因為第一胎沒經驗 又加上對找保母或拖嬰很陌生
後來婆婆又自告奮勇在我猶豫的時候說自己可以免錢幫忙讓我們好好存錢
(不得說有點吸引力)
公婆很疼女兒 但他們畢竟很久沒碰小孩 很多觀念會有些衝突
才住沒幾天我越想越不對勁 我才發現我錯估了自己
我以為我會捨得把女兒放台南 我不像自己想的那麼瀟灑
在孩子生出來以前我無法想像我會這麼愛她
所以 我後悔了 上周回來上班後每天一直吵老公要接她回來
也許是被我吵到煩 他答應我若找到適合的人就可以帶上來
後來我有找到住我家附近的小姑姑願意幫我帶
但老公卻覺得女兒才剛帶下去住 馬上帶回很不給他爸媽面子
要我等到10月初(因我們9月底要去日本玩) 打算9月初再告知他父母
但我還是很焦慮 怕公婆可能到時候更放不開(公婆每天幾乎都一直抱著)
同事也建議我要帶要快
這周要南下 我剛請老公跟婆婆說我想要下個月就帶回來(給他們2.3周緩衝)
結果老公卻要我自己說 還說那麼愛帶小孩不要出國啦
我該怎麼辦,真的要順著老公到10月再帶回嗎?
還是不管了 自己跟婆婆說找到保母
我好焦慮喔.想問問大家的意見
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