[寶寶] 寶寶被小姐姐欺負,該怎麼處理呢?已回收
我兒子將近11M,因為夫妻兩人都要上班的緣故,所以從2M開始,
兒子就交由保母照顧,下班再接回,
雖然我們的保母一直以來都同時照顧3個孩子,但目前為止雙方合作愉快,
兒子也很喜歡保母與保母家人,能找到一個好保母實在令我們很慶幸。
但是今晚去接他時,我看見保母和保母先生正在陪兒子玩,
而另外一個送托小女生(應該是兩歲快三歲)坐在小桌子前面畫圖。
當我抱著兒子坐在沙發上和保母聊天時,
那個小女生走過來當著我的面一直用力槌我兒子的左手,
雖然她的力道不致於造成嚴重傷害
,但我兒子對此有些不悅(愣愣的,不跟小女生互動,也不笑),
我也趕緊以手擋住,避免兒子再挨打。
此時保母對小女生說:「你喜歡弟弟,想跟他玩對不對?可是你的力氣太大了,
這樣不行,你抱抱弟弟就好了。」小女生聽完保母的話,就抱住我兒子,
但同時用雙手用力捏我兒子的右手臂!我趕緊再把她的手拉開,此時保母問我說,
小女生是不是捏我兒子,我回答是,保母有當場對小女生說要輕輕的才行,
並回頭告訴我這年紀的小孩還不會斟酌力道,所以這種事情難免會發生。
雖然我知道兩三歲的小孩尚沒辦法完全控制自己力道,但是據我的觀察,
她並不是單純因為喜歡我兒子,想跟兒子玩而不小心打到他或捏到他,
而是因為對於保母要分神照顧我兒子而有些吃醋(另外跟她爸媽平日都很晚才來接她,
且她媽媽日前懷了第二胎可能也有點關係......)
所以事後我一直在想平日兒子在保母家是否也經常被小姐姐這樣偷捏偷打,
兒子還不會走路,也不會說話,我想如果小姐姐偷欺負他,他應該也只能忍耐,
想到這裡我就有點崩潰......
但是今天我所看到的情形也可能只是偶發狀況,且兒子和保母感情不錯,
倘若臨時要換保母,也是個有風險的決定,
因此請問大家對於這種情形會怎麼處理,麻煩給我意見,謝謝!
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