[羊男] 直覺與思考過後的反應
各位羊羊大家好,
爬文常看到羊容易在被激怒或嚇到,
或任何"不在自己控制之內"的時刻,說出一些傷人的話,
我很想了解對羊羊來說,這些"直覺反應下"說出來的話比較貼近本意,
或是經過思考後說出來的話比較貼近內心真正的感覺呢?
像我是魔女, 對我來說我應該是當下脫口而出的反應比較貼近內心,
思考一陣子有可能因為一百個考慮而講出比較"合宜"的話,
不知道牡羊的大家是相反還是也是這樣?
因為某次不小心提起羊男的前段傷心戀情,
接而延續到我們之間是不是也不能長久之類的...
羊男就大暴走而說出好多傷人的話...T_T
但這些傷人的話又不是情緒用字, 而是他覺得現實上我們有哪些問題無法克服,
感覺他自己一人講個沒完, 把我嫌棄了一番,
最後惱羞成怒作了結論:我們一定不行!他覺得我會和前女友一樣總有一天和他提分手..
甚至還說到不如我們分手,以後都不要再見面了,反正沒有未來這種話
然後莫名其妙的把我趕走, 不准再繼續討論這件事了...
但過了兩天, 羊男對我更好更好, 比以前還好,
講出來的話比以前還溫和, 更考慮到我,當做完全沒有之前那件事...
更積極的找地方約我去玩, 找餐廳去吃飯
我不知道這算是彌補還是怎麼樣?
還是良心發現? 還是經過思考的他才是真正的他?
但我又覺得直覺下的反應應該是最真實的...
百思不解!
雖然我表面上也裝做沒事了, 但每次想起我還是非常非常在意...唉
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