[問題] 請問家屬如何調適家人即將面臨死亡?
我的爸爸確診胃癌四期多處轉移
發現到住院化療約兩個月後
前幾天醫生告訴我腫瘤壓迫腦幹
治療無效已著手進入安寧
家裡只剩我(28歲)一位弟弟(25歲)
所以主要照顧者是我
這當中醫院大小事都是我處理
還要兼顧上班
本來在北部上班也轉調回南部工作
目前因為假已不夠有申請留職停薪
等待主管回覆
想請問各位家屬
再陪伴家人進入最後一段路
大家都是如何面對?
面對工作,面對家人,面對很多醫院的狀況
我常常因為想做但做不好而愧疚
想陪伴卻因工作無法馬上中斷而錯過
大家都說盡人事
但這種巨大的失落感大家如何面對及調適?
心情就像一條緊繃的弦
新的狀況一直累積累積
稍不注意弦好像就會斷掉
目前我爸還有自理能力
所以他要求先不請看護
但體力流失及狀況慢慢的慢慢的變差
家人又無法隨時再旁看顧
再這段期間是否真的需要請看護?
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